Girl ghosted me after first date reddit Every girl except 1 ghosted me the same day we were about to meet. As we Your text didn't require a reply, so it's not really ghosting. However, the conversation immediately dried out. I’ve had dates with clingy women, one wanted to drive 10 miles to bring me dinner at work after a FIRST DATE that didn’t even include a kiss. He never said anything about her being rude during the date or after, just that she ghosted him. About a month ago she "ended" it because she said i seemed non commital and didnt believe I wanted a relationship. If you’ve been ghosted after the first date, it doesn’t have to be a long, complicated process for what to do after. we talked all 4 hours. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. She wanted to be friendly. Funny thing is, first girl still hasn't even messaged in any capacity. On two separate occasions, I was even ghosted after *six* dates (including sex). Ghosted after dating a woman for 4 months. We ended the first date with a hug and I got her number after. Be prepared for some upsetting revelations, just in case. Follow reddit rules. Our 4th date was our first official date where I helped her move to her new house and took her out on a proper dinner date. I've had dates where I just don't felt that attraction, and of course I'll still make the best of the date, engage in conversation etc, but i don't want to do it again. Please keep the rules of r/dating_advice in mind while participating here. Did you call or message her after the first date to follow up? I was ghosted after talking with someone for about a month, including dates. First talk to some of your friends for insight - male and female. Yet, I am always surprised by when I am ghosted by girls so frequently even after having a nice time with them. After the text of her thanking me, I don’t hear from her for 3 days. Am I really at fault here? I get not feeling like you want to text, but ignoring messages for 4 This is why as a general rule of thumb, if someone is overly nice, I almost expect them to be a shit person behind the scenes. We proceeded to date for about a month (8-10 date total), things went great, we were both clicking well, we could just talk for hours about random topics, etc. I always organize the date 1- 2 days after texting so the things dont "cool down". So you might as well set a meet up quickly, go on dates and have some fun before they eventually ghost you. Sorry that you had to experience this. We hadn’t really talked until the night of but we hit it off and were talking nonstop and flirting constantly. Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or Dude, 2 months ago I had 2 dates in with a girl and we hit it off pretty well, second date she had a great time and even texted me after to tell me how much fun she had. You don't know anyone that well after a first date. but the whole time i was just comparing. The girl who ghosted me also brought me home on the first date and introduced me to her brother and then introduced me to her parents the next day. Maybe too much, I don't know maybe it was that I tried too hard to let him know how smart I am (or think I am). She texted me the same day saying I was acting childish. We were holding hands and talking a lot of I went out with this girl on a first date months ago. We connected, and we agreed for a second date, at the end of the second date, she was dropping me to my car, and i asked her "if i can kiss her". But after the I (M22), went on a date with a sweet girl (F20) the day before yesterday after a month of conversation. The stuff about "the kindest soul" is over the top. What the actual F ? Bro, first days flirt a bit to see if she reciprocates, if she does, move in to kinky stuff and joke with her be light hearted and don’t put pressure. Just tell them you want to meet to see if there is chemistry after a few decent text convos. A subreddit to discuss and explore the dating process and learn from the experiences of others So I had first ever date with a girl. Give it a few more days, then if you still haven't heard from her consider dropping her a message. We connected intellectually, emotionally and physically. he texted me immediately afterwards saying he wanted to see me again. I did get into the habit of expressing I didn’t feel a connection and wished them well instead of leaving them hanging. Most of my first dates are 6 hour plus long dates (as opposed to 1-2 hours typical for first dates). She read my last message but never responded. Sure, I know dating apps aren't on top of the priority list of most people. drinks. From my end, I wouldn't want a guy that I ghosted to continue to hope. Second date (art exhibit, at least 4 days after first date), she only talked to you for a couple of minutes, but said she wants to you again. Most likely she had low interest in you, gave the date a shot, and afterwards concluded she wasnt feeling it. I responded saying I did too. We had a great time all 4 dates. I've had a few First I would like to remind you that we are many to be ghosted here, but it's not a big deal. At least now I know even though she could have texted me that instead of ghosting me for 2 days. We had a fun night at a local bowling alley/arcade and ended it with ice cream and a stroll along the beach. Maybe something like that happened and she decided on ghosting instead of saying it. I have learned to never take someone at their word. we texted a little bit. She was all over me on the date too. While we all tend to panic that the person we went on a first date with suddenly ended up in a Have you ever ghosted someone, and if so why? To me, ghosting is quite painful. 108K subscribers in the OnlineDating community. I won't ghost you. I was upset and heartbroken, but I was glad she told me this way for closure. Only 1 girl was able to tell me she just She blocked him because she didn’t want to be in contact after the first date. The title tells it all. girl ghosted after I asked for her phone number . Next time, I'd encourage you to put two feet on the ground and not get so whisked away. You are technically still a stranger even if you have the best first date in the world. I was in a similar position October this year where I made the decision to walk away from a girl after we had established a connection. This has happened to me before. Got ghosted after asking for a second meet up. Hurts I (m) matched with a girl online, all going great, shes been very sweet and said she thinks im really attractive, heart emojis, etc, i opened up about that I've got a bit of social anxiety, talked about families, everything via text has been amazing and she said i seem too good to be true because i have family traditional values and I've been very complimentary and attentive to her, This happened to me the other day- we literally ran into each other going in/coming out of the supermarket! He was my first date post separating and ghosted me a week later, so nowhere near as bad as your situation, but I was gutted as it was my first foray into dating! He tried to chat me up (I’ve lost 10kgs since then!) gave him nothing haha! Hi guys, well it finally happened to me. After scheduling a third she began to get really distant, which is okay, I’m not expecting instant responses but the day we agreed on came and went with no response. granted i never met my ghoster, it was just daily communication for the last 4 months and talking about what we would do. Which is when I started to have feelings for her. We continued texting and I tried setting up a second date and then ghosted. If it's urgent, send us a message. Who knows man she may message you at some point down the line and want to come back into your life. It seems like people on OLD get bored after a couple weeks. Either I felt like I was holding a monologue or the person shown me some questionable morals/opinions I heavily disagree withalso one time becaus the dude Any guy who asked me out after our first date did so during the date, and/or planned it after the date immediately. I matched with a girl earlier this week online and when we met on Sunday for our first date, our connection was just incredible. Be honest & it will spare them a lot of suffering. We said bye and this time she initiated a hug instead of me and I hugged her with only one arm. We probably went on 4 dates and the last one was to the fair where we both had a great time. Women are crazy. I would recommend bringing it on the second or third date since the first date is more like a screening of whether you two vibe or not. They could’ve said it so much less harsh than what was initiated said. We eventually texted and had a bunch of conversations everyday. About why she got mad. Ended up bailing on 2 dates- excuses were work and then a broken tooth. Yes both those things. We had a lot of similar interests and we decided on a dinner date. All of my other dates except for the other one I mentioned earlier have ended with me being ghosted when following up with them after the first date or asking if they want to go on a second date. During this date, she asked me when my last date was and she told me her last date was a 2nd date with another guy the week before. I recently lost a good amount of weight (I wasn't fat before but the best way to describe it is now I have visible abs). When a girl has undoubtedly ghosted you, do you typically just forget about it and move on right when you realize it? Had a chick text me out the blue after ghosting me for like 3 weekshey I didnt forget about you I've just been crazy busy blah blah blah. Especially if she’s hot and probably has a catalogue of other guys showing a bit more daring interest. I was dating this girl (24F), I'm 28 for about a 3 weeks. We rely on user reports to find rule-breaking behavior quickly. She said yes, and we kissed twice for 2-3 seconds. We had our first date after a week of talking and it went awesome. They include the possibility that, while you think you might have gotten alo Here’s why ghosting happens after a first date and how to cope when it happens to you. I am 25 and the girls I asked out are 22-26. 1 said sorry about not answering because she was really busy but when I asked about rescheduling she never replied. He told me he regretted not kissing me after the first date and how he found me attractive. To me the only healthy response after such a Girl ghosted me after what I thought was a really good night So I’m in a fraternity and invited a random girl to a date function that we were having. Now this is where things take a turn. Told her I was and we set up a date. I kept hoping for a text back even though it’s been more than a week. Plan got made, excitement was mentioned by both parties. Where I feel like I've been lied to is I haven't heard from her since the date and the last thing she said to me was she wants to see me again and we'll hang out again soon. It meant she liked chatting with you at a baseball game--same as if you were a girl. Ofcourse I was understanding, dont let I have lost interest and ghosted when the conv ends and neither of us has said anything in 24hrs. Yeah, when I was younger someone ghosted me after 6 months. That’s flattering and all but I saw it as she wasn’t ready for a relationship, she came across as lonely or incomplete. Try to not take the ghosting personally though, it sadly happens all the time (also to me) First date went really well, over the weekend. 73 votes, 73 comments. Second, go on YouTube. We went on a great first date and there was real chemistry but she ghosted me and citing her mental state wasn't in the right place. There was even a girl saying on TikTok she only uses Tinder because she likes the attention but every guy instanly lost when matching her. I tried to stay connected to her after that particular date, but she stopped responding one day shortly after. Whenever a girl would sleep with me on the first or second date, like you did, I would just put them in the casual hook up bucket. It's long-distance as she lives in a different State but soon will be moving to same State as me. the. Girls always seem to enjoy the time and they are usually the ones to suggest one activity after the next during our first date. Have no expectations going into a first date, and keep this in mind: A first date is like an interview and a Posted by u/natantantan - 3 votes and 13 comments 12M subscribers in the relationship_advice community. I was talking someone and she came from behind and said hi. Touching that unmatch button was so hard. There is a lot of background to this so strap in, get your preferred drink and read away to this sorrowful post. Most girls end up giving me their number on dating apps after we’ve planned a There's this girl I've met on Tinder, we talked a lot and dated last week, it was a nice date, we kissed each other, cuddled, I thought she was Follow reddit rules. I don't know how anyone could be mean to you. There are some good people out there, i honestly think the apps just make them harder to find. I (24M) went on a date on with a girl on Monday with a girl I met on Bumble. Do not fixate so much on someone you date, you are confusing focused anxiety for affection. I was ghosted a few days ago by someone who is in his 40s. if they are interested in someone, and even looking to hang out or date with I keep getting ghosted after first or second dates, the girl agrees to go out with me, they seem to be enjoying themselves and then I either hear nothing or they string me along a little bit. I responded and asked her a few questions in turnradio silence (the message was marked as unread but she probably saw it). But they aren’t obligated to answer you or see you again. TL/DR: Girl ghosted me after great first date and I just wanna vent. She continued to say how much she enjoyed the evening and said I can use her number if I wanted. She actually blocked me on Instagram for 2 weeks then unblocked me and drunk texted me asking if I hate her lol. We also set up a third date this weekend. I dated this girl back around late September and early October. And then out of nowhere weeks later she texted me "Hey you, how are you doing?" Does she actually believe that I'm going to go back out with her? Dude I had a chick on a first date invite me to her house 2 days later and then ghosted me. I’ve been ghosted by every girl bar 1 in the past 4 years since starting dating after a breakup. They ghost. Try not to get too down, I was ghosted after seeing someone for 6 months. But someone doing all that on a first date would be a parade of red flags for me. Any way, several months later recently, she reaches out Follow reddit rules. Something like that has had a few send me a text months later asking me out. Like I totally was used to the idea that when dating stuff can change quickly. I don’t like the idea of random folk having my number or me having theirs. But I know after all i know i don't deserve a sudden block. I’ve been stressed and hurt about it for days. Previous ghoster was a month ago and that date was nowhere to be seen after she agreed to a 2nd date. IF she just ghosted me Ghosted After 4 Dates . Shes not into you. And texted day I once had a girl ask me out for coffee. They leave. TL;DR: Went on an unofficial date with a girl I met after she asked for my number and introduced the idea of doing something together. True story. She texted me 1 month later. I Need Advice ‘ She didn’t make you first priority after a couple random chit chats on a dating app never talk to her again!’ My gf is exactly like this and after ghosting me for months she would barely text, some days wouldn't hear from her at all and when I did it was always and I really want to have that conversation, however, I don't feel I have the "right", I had a similar conversation with another girl, but I had good reasons to (I asked her out, she said yes, cancelled at last minute, and move the date to another day, did that 3 times, then ghosted me) with her, I don't know if I have that right, I asked her Went a date with a guy. Girl ghosting me after 1 day of talking . dude same. We both get home, and I texted her that I had a great time and she replied with thanking me and that she did also have a nice time. We had our second date this Tuesday that was 6+ hours where again we were all over each other. We found out we were very compatible in that department as well and things were going well with us constantly kissing and making out. Twice I’ve passed on a Hinge match to a friend truly because I believed they had more in common. The following week, she texted me and asked to meet up again, I said yes. Third date never happens because she ignores multiple texts from you. 2 of those 3 ghosts I really vibed with and had great first dates. upvotes Welcome to r/dating_advice!. I’ve had guys ghost me and I’ve ghosted guys. I'm not worried about it, though, and really wasn't after the date; she had photoshopped all of her pictures and did not look like her Tinder photos almost at all. Only once did a girl text me they had a good time then ghosted me when I tried to book the A girl I met on Reddit ghosted me about a year ago. What is your opinion? 1. I had three amazing dates with a girl. But I set up a date with her the same day and we hooked up. That’s what I was thinking. We don’t read the rules, but we’ll post anyway A girl who made me feel some emotions after a long time of only hooking up with other women just ghosted me after seeing each other for 2,5 months, yeah it was on Tinder and she is pretty, so i guess there are probably other guys. A little about me. Last month, I met this girl on hinge and we went on two dates, (she invited me to the second one). It didn't mean she wanted to be asked on a date. he kissed me goodnight. Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver; Many years ago (probably around 4-5) went on a date with a girl. I was speaking to this girl for about 2. I went out with this girl on a first date. Hi everyone, There was a really cute girl who caught my eye at a fast food place I go to all the time. We texted just about everyday after. In my experience, women that want to have long conversations on the phone, or face time a bunch before the first date, have 100% bailed on the first date. After the 4th date, I kissed her goodnight as I dropped her off and went home after having discussed a lot of potential fun activities for the 5th date with her Few months ago a girl told me in a similar case that I was too touchy maybe, but I haven't done anything the girl did not want. Starting to really think something is wrong with me but I've racked my brain over and over, there's not been anything I can come up with that was consistent throughout the dates that would, to me, seem like a reason for ghosting. But she ended up ghosting me when I reached out for a second date. time, especially from older men--i'm just being friendly and they are confused or insulted when I don't want to go on a date. The date went well. As long as you’ve accepted it, felt any emotions that that’s stirred up, then really – you can carry on to the “moving forward” part. Nowadays when I think about ghosting I‘m being pretty pragmatic. We went on a coffee date which went super well and then another date after that. We've had sex multiple times, had some great conversations and a week after our last date she completely stopped responding. She was very straightforward and asked me about my sexual preferences. This happened to me literallly yesterday. But you gotta cut your losses and move on to the next one. Already mentioned here about the situation that happened. But if a first date is a sinking ship, i will politely find an exit point after an hour. The first date was great, she said she liked me multiple times, she told me all about herself even her personal details. I (30/M) met a girl my same age on a dating app. Ladies, why do you ghost after a great first date? 20's M. I ghosted a few people after seemingly good first dates because of various reasons. I liked her and thought the conversation was flowing well, well enough that I thought a second date would definitley be in the cards, but then when I get home she's blocked my Yeah def not a ghost in that case but it's very curious why someone would ask you out and then not follow up. Like I said I reached out to her not too long after the date and got no response, meaning she made the decision to ghost me right after the date. During dating scene, much earlier on when I had major anxiety, I’m the whole So I went on a date with this girl from tinder last month, it went well, she told me she wants to take it slow so nothing happened other then getting to know each other on the date. Online dating has just given flakey people an easier way to be flakey. After the date that night she messaged me that night on instagram and gave me her number. We got on really well, spent most of the evening together, chatting about life and general first date questions, we laughed and just got on well! At the end of the date with both expressed how we like to see each other again, and how we had a great time. previously, whenever I took it slow (as in focusing in getting to know the girl rather than trying to get intimate quickly), this sort of stuff happened. Current gf ghosted me for 2 weeks after we first met because her gma died. I thought it went really well. TLDR: Moral of the story - Don’t agree to second dates then ghost people. Move On and Continue to But if you've been persistent in wanting a reply I also probably would have eventually realized that you did feel it was appropriate to "end things" after 2 dates and would have given an answer. It wasn't a great date, but not bad. Evaluate Your Mistakes; 3. I do a lot of research on this exact thing funny enough, and sometimes there are reasons why people unintentionally ghost, such as either they have more than 3-5 matches they are talking with, or have a date or something set up for something in the next day or two, weekend, etc. I (34M) went on one date with this girl (32F) from online dating late last year. we planned a new date on wednesday. went on a date thinking it would help, and it did a little bit. They kissed me at the end of a first date plus asked to see me later on the week. All but 5 ghosted after the first date. Her replies since the start were very slow and took a while (we all have busy lives). Couple days later she texted me asking if I was free to hang out the following weekend. We texted for about 3 days. Which (if you ever watch MTV in the mid to late 2000s), makes me think I would of totally won that cash prize for surviving that dating prank show, where they gave you a dollar for every minute you lasted on a bad date your friend secretly set up with MTV. Dating/Experience I (25M) went on 4 dates with a girl (23F). Do not post content that promotes hate based on identity or vulnerability. She ghosted me as a way to end the relationship I called her to talk and she would not answer. It was only a couple of messages a day or so, but she was enthusiastic to meetup and apologized if it took her a while Ghosted after a fantastic first date. I thought she was into me. 5 months. Hi, I’ve had three women on an online dating site, where I thought we built strong conversations leading up to the first date—ghost me right before So now I get cautious whenever I see romantic gestures early on. But, around three days later, I texted her that ' I had a great time, and would love to see her again. Learn from It ; 4. I'm trying to take it SLOW with women. I never really tried to pursue her in the beginning. Amazing first date, we got a short lunch then spent like 4 hours layed down in a park, talking, touching, lots of similar tastes, shared a lot, lots of flirting, so much butterflies in my chest and so much feelings. Just the nature of the beast. Later that night, she thanked me for a nice night over text. We had a great time, atleast thats what she texted me right after we both reached home. That’s lust not deep meaningful connections or love. Just last week I was ghosted suddenly and without much warning. 1 month later she hit me up like nothing happened. Until she eventually got bored and ghosted me after hooking up 5 times over a 2 week period. I'd Just thank them for a great time, let them know I'd be happy to go out again, include an inside joke reference, then wish them the best. Then the day of I asked if we were still on and she said she couldn’t make it, so I told her we can shoot for another time. Sort by: Best. The conversation flowed, your connection felt natural, and you thought to yourself, "This could turn into something. Very casual and was nice just chatting ans talking. I 28M went on a first date with a really cool girl 25F on Friday for some casual drinks. It’s what it is. Had three dates with a girl last month. There was some sexual chemistry I’ve been on 7 first dates in the last 5 weeks and of which, 3 I’ve been ghosted after. Put yourself first. Try to meet up within the first or maximum the second week. The random ghosting after the acting job she did for an hour and a half. After I walked her back to her car and we agreed to go on another date for the following Friday (today). . It’s been 5 days. It was very unexpected because it was not long after she had told me she would never ghost me and she liked being my friend and was looking forward to being there for me in the future (not in those exact words, I'm paraphrasing). People who “fall hard” after one date consistently usually have attachment issues and need therapy. I'm looking for a relationship. I don’t even know what to think. Everybody lies. But to be ghosted after you hd a picture perfect first date with reciprocal intimacy, kissing, holding hands really hurts a lot. And on and on. Literally wait til the next day and enjoy the afterglow. Picture this: You went on an awesome first date. After telling her to whoa up she admitted she just wanted to see me again. He literally just stopped replying one day. I (22M) went on a date with a girl (21F) after weeks of texting through tinder. In another instance, I asked a girl out after a few days of talking. We spoke for a few days and hit it off, after which I asked her out. Sounds like that’s what he did. They abuse you in one or more ways. and he was terrible at sex our first time, and reddit filled me in that maybe his last partners just didn't give him feedback. I believe I’ve been ghosted after sex after dating for almost two months. We messaged for a couple of weeks before the meet up. Third time he just stopped answering my last message and then a phone call. 6M subscribers in the AskMen community. I deleted her phone number too. Night before I texted to confirm & poof! I think of it as bullets dodged TBH. I first followed up with a message asking if the time suits, and offered to talk on the phone if she’s nervous and woul. Usually there are two reasons why a person could ghost another after the first date. Sad but true. So let's break this down so you understand her perspective. The first date was amazing. Honestly, being ghosted after a couple calls and one in-person date isn't that bad. And about how she seemed to want to talk to me after pushing me away, but then never said anything) And I asked her what she expects out of me because no matter what I do, it ends badly. However, she's flaked multiple times to talk on the phone which looking back at it was a red flag. I never texted her after the first date that I had a great time. i was the same way with my first dates always unsure what to do, even though I’ve been told already what the best thing was to dodidn’t wanna come off as too naive, self centered, attention seeking, etcall that are red flags and didn’t wanna show that even Girl who ghosted me for four months then came back . The only opinion I expressed was that I like the movies as an ideal first date, as she asked me what my ideal first date is. Dude, it happened to me recently too. A male neighbor wanted to set me up with another neighbor, a female. We chatted a lot she was interested in me. Sometimes it happens However, her lack of response and delayed replies makes me think she's not interested, which is the opposite feeling I got from our dates (why would she 1 - accept a second date at her place 2 - be willing to make out with me 3 - let me go to her room if she was not interested). Brah out here waisting summers like thy are Soo i went on a date with a girl, she was exactly like me. When is she available to go out with me?' Well, we went out again - had a great time. The date the following week was also good, she ended up coming back to my place. A friend of mine advised me that first date should last 2 hours, and he never kiss or do anything with a girl on the first date. Do not put so much value on the results of a first date, good or bad. Assess the Situation; 2. Some people can't handle telling someone they no longer want to date. mine just stopped texting me after getting busy and after his grandma passed. Day of, she ghosted me. I simply asked her when she was free next after she agreed to see me again Most have been courteous to send me the ‘no spark’ reply though after I contacted them after the date. Everything about online dating - your amusing stores, advice, and Yeah, people suck. As for the rest, plenty of first dates (and first date kisses) never result in second dates. I just got ghosted by somebody after 2 months and amazing dates too. I thought it went well. She set me up with her by showing her pics of me and the girl agreed to a blind date. s. Reply reply reasonable_vegetale For example, I have been on about 20 first dates this year alone. This happens to me all. The times when I never heard from him again when I had a good time was like, a hug at the end I’ve gotten ghosted after first dates, after several dates, after sleeping with someone several times (even when they’re the one who instigated that), after talking to someone every day and dating for months in a pseudo-relationship type thing. So after that we texted back and forth, made small talk, and scheduled a second date 5 days later. Or check it out in the app stores a girl who had ghosted me suddly text me saying she missed me and wanted to get things back on track. So I went on a date with this girl, went super well. 1K opinions shared on So if she’s ghosting you after the first date, maybe you’re trying too hard to lock in that second date? Or maybe you’re overwhelming her with messages? (aka blowing up her phone). For reference I’ll say for every 10 girls I approach, 6 of them tell me they are not interested/ they have a boyfriend , 3 of them do the “giving me their number b. When I say ghosted, I mean “stopped responding entirely” and usually blocking me on social media. I’m a girl too. I told her about myself and we discussed sensitive topics and priorities we were cool with each other regarding those. I just said hi and she apologized for not answering and said she was talking to someone. No one has There might be many reasons why you haven't heard from someone you feel you had an instant connection with, as Julie Spira, online dating expert and author ofLove in the Age of Trump: How Politics is Polarizing Relationships, tells Elite Daily. just fucks with me bc i kno he’s just using that to get off easy without I've had one date where the girl politely declined when I invited her on a second date via text. So please, don't make it one ! For me, the key is to not give a single fuck about her. Try your best to be kind. I’m not saying you need to play games and wait 10 dates for sex, but just know that doing it so soon could possibly make the guy think you do that all the time and is a turn off Four days after the first text, seeing as she was still posting as if nothing happened I decided to just unfollow her. If someone isn't interested, they should just be honest. From a girl that is notorious for having a history of ghosting, I'm sorry this happened to you. I guess it was just a drunk moment, and she regretted it the other day. My ex broke up with me after dating for eight months. They might help you understand the psychology of dating. We agreed to go on a date the next week regardless Everyday for the next week after our date she initiated contact with me so I assumed I did a good job on the date. So I had a date last weekit went really well. Share Add a Comment. I agreed to another date. Anything could have happened. She said she really liked my company and wanted to see me again, and didn't want me to ghost her. We talked for hours If You Were Ghosted Before the First Date; If You Were Ghosted after the First Date; What to do When a Girl Ghosts You. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now Girl ghosted me after our first date . Also, it's only been 36 hours so she's probably still sick. View community ranking In the Top 5% of largest communities on Reddit. I made sure to have options for dinner (I paid, of course. That’s really what’s bothering me. If she still doesn't reply, then yeah you've been ghosted. I've been on 5 great first dates recently and then ghosted when trying to make a plan. I know that you both said that there was a connection, but like others have said, there I would say yes. She reached out to me about a week after the third date, told me that she had a fantastic time and proceeded to ask me a few random questions. Yeah turns out you were right, I said it another comment. not kidding. She also actively wasted time of the guys there because she did in fact chat with them before ghosting them after some time. he said he didn't met girls like me very often. Then a few days later I go to her house and we cuddle and watch Netflix for a couple hours and she gives me a nice BJ. She’s being rude by ghosting, sure, but after 3 dates and just giving hugs you’re toast. I didn't even ask for it. Look up videos on dating. The first date was amazing, time flew by and we had a good vibe as we shared a lot of common ground in terms of growing up, food, hobbies etc. but not responding” and 1 would actually engage in convo and be more open to setting a date up (if I can set the date up because apparently people in college are busy every Expect at least 50% to ghost or “soft ghost” after a first date. There are dating and socializing courses. Open comment sort options We get that for some Reddit is a forum to vent , sometimes in the heat of the moment , maybe the next day , tell a story , make some comments , seek some advice. and keep talking the next few days like everythings normal. After that, we been texting everyday and met a few times after that in the following week, eventually for us to confess to each other and maybe take it slow to see how it goes. (About how she acted with me before the argument. Trust no one. Usually has read receipts on, and now I’ve been left on delivered I had been casually dating a girl for over 5 months although things were never official. She seemed enthusiastic over text. 1. Exactly. Just ghosted after a first date upvotes So I went on a date with another girl I met on Tinder, and we've been an item ever since. Sent a her a message one week later for a date, she said yes. I know our conversation was fading a bit recently due to us both busy with work. She came over to my house to tell me the news. I will never leave you. I'm 24, M. " When it was over, a day Married at First Sight; The Real Housewives of Dallas; My 600-lb Life; Last Week Tonight with John Oliver; Girl Ghosted me after hook-up I Need Advice Yet another date where the man didn't ask me A SINGLE QUESTION. Don’t take it personally because despite any pre-date “vetting” the first date does a lot of weeding out and for most it’s easier to just not continue pleasantries. We both seemed to enjoy each others company and get along quite well. Honestly the only way I've been rejected after a first date and had them reach out to me later is to be very cool about it. I was devastated, heartbroke. I've been ghosted countless times after in-person dates. Not making a move after 3 dates kinda speaks for itself brotha. 5 months and she ghosted after our first date. Then it broke off. I do think it’s a good sign that she texted first though. I text first when it was a good date and I know that I’m interested to see him again. Like the excitement is usually palpable. I got ghosted after months and it sucked more than some longer term relationships that at least ended on good terms. Anyways, he kept on sending me songs he liked for about 4 months, but would ghost me anytime I'd reply. Anyways she liked me first on the app and I ended up liking her back. Few months go by and I ask for her number to help me with something outside work. Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now I just got blocked by a girl after a first date which lasted about an hour and half at a coffee shop. Feeling bummed out. One ghosted her (oops) and the other one went through the dreaded “talking stages” but ultimately didn’t come to fruition. He waited five days to reach out after our third date (which I had initiated) and at that point I was annoyed and left him on read after 3M subscribers in the dating community. So a girl I work with "Kayla" (22f) has been flirting with me (28m) ever since she and her ex split. He stopped answering me 2 days ago. We've talked multiple times on the phone since then. The guy you were dating took the coward's way out by hoping you would just go away with no closure. Conversation went on for like a half hour, I really took my time analyzing the music he'd send me and replying. I’ll usually meet someone off Tinder in person and if I decide I like them after our first date then I’ll exchange numbers. And how hard can you fall after one single date. Avoid the extreme or crazy sounding stuff. if she hit me up and was like hey, I had a good time but I don’t really think this is for me, nothing personal” whatever, I’d be like well that sucks but I see how she feels. I've made out with a girl multiple times on a 1st date only for her to ghost before 2nd date could be finalized She texted me 20 minutes after the date saying how much fun she had and that she wanted to meet again. Hi, this is probably a stupid question but whatever. I dated a girl for 2. He agreed with me when we first started a few months back that he did not like ghosting as he was ghosted before. We seemed to have alot in common and even kissed on the first date. There are also *ghost+flakes*, which is what I call it when someone stands me up and simultaneously ghosts. So first off, this is a throwaway because I'm a little embarassed and hurt by what happened. Ive successfully went out with girls that ghosted BEFORE a first date, but Ive never successfully went out again with a girl that ghosted directly after a first date. Second date was a week later as she came to my place for I met a girl online a few months ago, we’ve talking on the phone almost everyday and we’ve established a connection and became very good friends but just a few days ago, I tried planning a date with her and after we agreed on everything, I call her and she doesn’t respond and I call again and again, no response after a few days I keep calling but no response, I text her and So I took a hinge girl out for dinner last week, It went really well and we slept together on the first date. She was super late (even though the place was 2 minutes from her house), but the conversation was good. she texted me about 20 mins after it saying she had a great time. He then told me she said it was cool to contact her, so I did. He told me about her, said he told her about me. Worst part is he's 38 and he was the one doing the chasing. Report any rule-breaking behavior to the moderators using the report button. I have ghosted after a date (first after becoming single) I have also been ghosted before a first date. You decide, after all, how big or I “ghosted” a guy recently because he was all of a sudden really slow to reply to my messages (after being a lighting fast reply guy) and I assumed he lost interest/wasn’t serious enough about me. Girl ghosted me after a good first date So, I met this girl on Instagram, it was her bday and I slid into her DM and it didn't take long, I just joked around and said I'd gift her like a burger or ice cream, to my surprise, she accepted while she didn't even know me (neither did I really know her, just saw the story, found her pretty enough and Edit I’m sorry this happened to you. Ghosting sucks. Somehow every first date I’ve been on (only 8) the girl texted me first the same night saying she had a good time and then I ask her out for the second one. Anyways we part ways that night, kiss goodbye, etc. So there's a pattern Basically my sister hooked me up with her “go-to” waitress at a restaurant she frequents. Here is what frustrates me. I met a girl like yours. Ok here let me break it down because your probably thing "if she me to do x instead she could have said so and I would have done it" or something along those lines of I'm not a mind reader you have to tell me what you want. She has been ghosting me ever since I sent that message. He said he was excited to see me again. I have bin talking to this girl from hinger for about 2 weeks straight everday. The night of the date she stated she did not want to have sex but we did other stuff. I called her and we spoke for less than 5 minutes because she was with her mom. If she refuses start ghosting her and talk to the next girl you like. Met via OLD. We held hands, I went for the kiss at the end. kgakiluv yfp icgofx ymxulx fbenwx ianwflzb jaswz wtwz bska cofq