Regret dumping bf reddit In the Posted by u/breakthrowaway7 - 15 votes and 16 comments My bf stays close to me when we're all together. I have regretted not breaking up with folks sooner. I really loved him, but I felt like I had to experience more and be You can’t control that. Yes I have a few friends I can talk to and my family is very supportive. Time is the biggest healer. Had 2 kids. You only started to regret it when you heard he is with someone new. Chances are you’re idealizing the relationship you had because you had We broke up a few weeks ago, but had his gift planned for awhile. Relationship felt good, we never had any Business, Economics, and Finance 73 votes, 63 comments. Or the ones who thought they could do I don’t regret meeting my husband. My ex (early 30s) broke up with me a week and a half ago. He travels with her and living together. I've been with her for several years and she doesn't pay attention to me the way she used to. Et al. I didn’t mean to give the impression I’m not good. So I moved past it and told him to be upfront always from then on. He wanted nothing more than to be a dad, even when we were teenagers. He thinned out a lot So, a while ago, i meet a girl. If Honestly, why waste your time and emotion on a futile pursuit? Leave your ex in the past, where they belong. I honestly never realized what an Imo the only ones who regret the dumping are the ones who broke it off in the spur of the moment (trauma response, sudden heated argument, etc). Skip to main content Posted by u/EntertainmentLow4190 - 10 votes and 2 comments My BF came to my place as soon as he made it back in town. So I moved past it Sometimes I regret it too, because my brains think « at least I didn’t suffer this much with him ». I (36F) broke up with my boyfriend (37M) last year and the regret of leaving him haunts me. Ongoing support for break ups. We I think it just depends with everyone. ” Yes, the first stage is obviously one of relief. in between these time we were having the best life both physically and mentally Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit The regret was initially "how could I let this happen" which then became more of a slightly secure "I don't need her romantically and we can still function as friends" but now it's more of a regret Note: this is a community for in-depth discussions, not a dumping ground for memes, pictures, videos, or short text posts. The "what if?". I broke it off with her in Me and bf is been dating for past 1. He left me but I kinda understand his reasons. They will regret ending it if you were a kind, caring, thoughtful, considerate and loving partner. he is doing well now. All your base are belong to us. He was in love with me for a while, and I think I sort of convinced myself that I was in love with him too. 7 months together, did and give my best. Nah man it’s time to move on, my ex broke up with me 11 days ago. I'm so in love with my girlfriend. She walked out the door and that was it. If I can't see a future with that From relief to dumper’s regret: The stages of after a breakup that lead to dumper’s regret. But still, I wanted to break up - she didn't. We started growing apart, both struggling with our own issues, and I thought it would be best for both of us if we New to this but need to get this off my chest. I don’t regret dumping him but for a while I I moved across the country (think multiple day drive) to go to college and I broke up with him because everyone kept telling me it was the right thing to do and that I would regret not getting 3. He tried to kiss me, but I turned my head. It’s been almost 3 months no contact, and things are getting tougher instead of easier. There are 27. First love is really special, the He left me but I kinda understand his reasons. Members Online • 19roxy98 ADMIN MOD I keep breaking up with Do you sometimes consider dumping an SO if you feel like the bipolar stuff is hurting them, distracting them, curbing their potential, giving them a social stigma via affiliation (during manic Only dumped (what a horrible word) someone once, it was also my best friend. I gave TL;DR: Basically dumped an amazing guy for being too inexperienced in bed because my best friend suggested so. We were each other's type, we communicated well, were supportive of each other, the sex was good even after 4 years, we shared some Yes. We fought to hold on, but it really wasn't worth it. Do I feel good anymore? No? Ok bye. The regret set in about a month after the breakup. Give her a chance to defend herself, and to air out her own frustrations. I broke up with my ex a I'm honestly not sure how you can fix this. Own up to the things you aren’t perfect about, as you’ve said View community ranking In the Top 5% of largest communities on Reddit Did any of you ever regret dumping someone? I heard a number of stories where someone dumps a really good Glad I could help a little bit. However, he needed to get back to his old self as much I did. First UPDATE: AITA for dumping my BF of 2 months for what he said about my nipples? Original post here I'd like to thank you all for coming together to discuss my nipples lol. I Well, he ended up dumping me in front of her. I found a cat who’s a good fit Hi! I just recently adopted a cat too and Dumping is like a hobby. Even when he commits to vacations, he always I think I am leaning towards no, at least long term. I was good until January 06. I regret that I gave my heart to her more than anything and didn't keep her at a distance. 5 years and recently moved in. He’s a huge urban planning fan, and I got him an inscription on a bench in his favourite park. You won’t feel like this forever, you really just need to 71 votes, 81 comments. In my personal experience, with the first two people I dumped I NEVER regretted dumping them and got on with my life pretty easily. Own a Dumper’s regret I broke up with my boyfriend for 4 years at the end of July. I instantly felt connected to him and we were always texting, snapping, and facetiming each other. At the beginning almost all dumpers feel like they did the best If you did not regret ending your relationship, please do not leave a top level response as it will be derailing. If you ended the relationship, it means it was meant to end. I ended up looking ridiculous because i had not realized how over me she was after she cheated on me. You think selfishly. it was hard. You It’s funny how you can regret something and still think you would have done it again. i didnt regret then but regretting it now. but regretted dumping one guy when i was out of school. You It wasn't exactly dumping (we were telling each other about how difficult this relationship is for both of us). She didn’t even look me in the eyes or have her body/face 24 votes, 17 comments. But I have a full deep rooted believe that he can’t and won’t find better. I am 27, it's been 6 years since I left my graduation college, but I still can't get over the regret that i didn't enjoy it Skip to main content Open menu Open navigation Go TL; DR: I'm not quite certain if I regret breaking up with my ex over complicated and perhaps unfair circumstances and want to consider the options of trying to repair things with her or just So, for some context, my ex bf and I matched on Tinder in October. The problem with what you said is that you said it as an insult and made him feel like you want someone else and like he is not good enough for you. I however do regret that every day of my life that I couldn’t have done something anything that would have resulted in I regret leaving at the time I left but overall I think it's best I left. Let’s take a look at the five stages that occur after you break up with someone and you’re the person doing the dumping. does it take a while for I regret that i hadn’t done things differently because when things were good it was like living in my own romcom. I asked the women of r/AskWomen if they ever pursued a taken guy, and the majority said yes. Really invested a lot of myself into this girl. I answered the door in just a t-shirt. I am sure that there are many people on this sub who will resent me, given that I was the dumper in this scenario. He was probably the best man you could ever imagine. I’m here to ask for advice because I’m being tortured by regret. I dated my high school boyfriend for about 4 years, half of which was in college. You had to hurt a person you once loved deeply, you are letting a relationship go that once seemed like it would People can definitely feel regret dumping someone, I've had multiple dumpers reach back out to me. I'm still asking questions about why a month later. If you're still young- There's always a possibilty I wouldn't say I regret it, but I do think about it. I'm not The only relationships I regret are where I still had feelings but left without trying to work them out first. First Text and see if he's down to meet up. I had been overthinking my decision over and over again for very long time because i didnt regret dumping most of my bfs. So, out of curiosity, who has Ah, I understand. She was so perfect and amazing, i loved her so much. I don’t regret marrying someone else. I hope my next 315K subscribers in the BreakUps community. The pain and regret hasn’t subsided though and it’s been over a year, so thought I would I know ppl say that girls “don’t regret” or go hookup quickly after, and these things both happen but not forever. Knowing they are hurting because of me isn't easy even if I know it was for My (21M) bf and I (21F) have been on a few vacations together in our almost 2 year long relationship and it’s gotten worse each time. I To all the dumpers here who regretted or still regret the breakup, what made you realize that it was a mistake? When my new bf was everything he was and wasn’t at the same time. That man will never come back, even if he changes his mind. I (25F) deeply regret breaking up with my (26M) boyfriend of five years. there hasnt been any massive fights or disagreements but starting I say it depends on what you’re But dumping someone has always caused me some regret or concern because I genuinely cared about the person. I think those who don’t regret are the ones for whom the relationship wasn’t that big of a deal. Now it's 6 years later, I've gotten over him and the We just making jokes out here. Report any rule-breaking behavior to the moderators using the Do you guys ever regret leaving someone who was good to you? I’ll admit I made my share of mistakes during the relationship as did she. I gave it a ton of time and did a ton of research. BF and I have been together 1. What really bothers me is that when we were together, Michael would tell me that 5 years back, when we broke up (because we also dated She ended up dumping me because she wants to work on her issues and “was never ready for a relationship. They'll regret ending it I'm going through this right now. She was emotionally unavailable and will never change. She's with her now fiancé'. #1 “Phew, I’m glad that’s over. I see things I don’t like, I see boring stories - she’s so boring she only ever posts stories about Definitely when she rebounds with her ex. Our love was infectious and we were known as a power couple. Me and my first love had a 7 years age difference and lived quite a distance away. e. Something like, "hi, I understand if Since both the initial breakup and recent talk, getting back together of course has crossed my mind and been a consideration. I also ignored too many red Mine in short: Fast connection, love bombing, moved together quite fast, lived together almost a year. I’ve been planning to adopt since late 2021. (I Nope. I Don’t worry I’ve cut off connection But the real question is that, will she ever regret dumping me for such silly reasons? Will she ever regret that she wasted someone who was willing to do everything for her and was 110%, loyal? For me it's the opposite. A week later after two I wonder the same thing. It's still derailing if you are commenting to say that you regret starting the relationship 25 votes, 53 comments. I did once, then dated her Say why you ended things and why you now regret it. in other words, she was 100% into the relationship and i was 50%. And what if he doesn’t? I broke up with a guy because I didn’t want to be in a relationship at the time. I didn’t want to do it but I felt like we both needed time Posted by u/thebrokenone123 - 13 votes and 19 comments The only girl I've ever dumped is sitting right next to me right now cooking muffins. After him, I couldn't Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 3 votes and 9 comments I wouldn't say dumped, but I ended things and regret it every single day. You can Personnaly, my dumper doesn't regret. I constantly hear her talk about it and she says she'll probably regret it for the rest of her life. I know right now I wouldn't take an apology from I'm on the exact same boat my friend. 5 years, I deeply regret it. We lived together at my place. I broke it off with my ex gf almost a year ago, and this is what I went through. He said it's just not working out. I stupidly resisted getting any more serious than we already were (were together only a year). Me and my family supported I had my reasons for dumping up with her which I don’t want to get into right now but the break up was abrupt and hard to go through. Fast forward, she has been consistently trying ti make an effort to get back together. I personally take things slow, I really get to know someone. I’d been thinking about breaking up with him for a while but never wanted to do it because I didn’t want to go through a heart Now that I look back on it, I regret staying with her past high school. When suddenly she started acting weird, exaggerating minor things or recalling things What does the timeline of dumpers’ regret look like? This is what’s nagging you at the back of your mind after splitting up. After the initial breakup, I mostly just considered it due to I broke up on Dec 09. My bf m(21) and I f(22) have been on the rocks for a while now we have a nasty history of me dumping him for anywhere between a half an hour and 5- Skip to main content Open menu I knew when I broke up with him that I would always want to be with him and would always love him. When her ex came back, I Safe to say it has been 3 years after their break up and she can't forgive herself for dumping him. I don't regret it. It takes a while but I know my friends too usually reminisce on their old crappy Ex and I have been together for 6 month in a long distance relationship (6 hours from each other away). I never ever said anything about "every dumper regret's it" lol. And I’m the best girl he’s I do with my last bf. ThrowRAhusbandsecret (36m), (33f) He thinks he isn't "obligated" to tell me I've heard a lot of guys regret breaking up with a certain ex before, I was just wondering does it go the same way for women or does every woman ends Skip to main content Open menu A guy broke my heart by dumping me after 1. We got together and we were so happy together. When I was convenient I was the angel on earth and the best thing of her life. I’ve gone to therapy a few times since and I can tell you it does wonders. But is your ex feeling the same way you are? These are just some of the questions that you’re really curious to find the Sure, there are regrets that coming with dumping someone. I really regret leaving him when I did, I got cold As the dumper it's your job to beg for him back and apologize. If you see something posted here that is not in the spirit of love Please flag it. Its well over 3 and a half years later. She doesn't kiss This sub is maintained by INTPs for INTPs all other MBTI are welcome too, but do us all a favor and add your MBTI type to your flair. ;) With Love r/Love Mods I am a bot, and this action was performed Fast forward 2. She dumped me to I don't hate or regret my ex for dumping me, I treat it as a life lesson. so if you are a man who has been the one to break up with someone, how long has it taken you to regret it? do you regret it? i Sure In my case it wasn’t a messy 10 votes, 26 comments. 18 days into I do think sooner or later my ex will regret dumping me if she doesn’t already. My situation currently, I did no contact immediately when we broke up. She seems really fine when dumping me as if there’s no reaction nor feelings on her side with poker face on. For the most part, I would say it is easier for dumpers to move on, but for those who had no other option, it’s just as bad as getting I did, and it did not work. And there are actually My (F23) bf (M34) says he wants to have sex with other women while I am away at nursing school for 18 months. Need help with your relationship? Whether it's romance, friendship, family, co-workers, or Business, Economics, and Finance Posted by u/Ill-Policy-1536 - 72 votes and 113 comments 56 votes, 50 comments. He couldn’t tell me the truth nor did he apologize to me for I realized I was the toxic one in the relationship To start off, I (23F) got broken up with about two days ago by the most amazing guy (25). I keep seeing posts saying things along the lines of "their silence is proof they don't care about you". When feelings are not there then My BF's parents passed away in an accident about 6 months ago, he was their only son and obviously this was extremely devastating for him to put it lightly. And she's so distant. Sadly, she had do move at the other side of the Me and my first bf were also together from ages 15-20. You will regret it if you stay in a relationship that you're not romantically happy in just because you feel bad for the other 23 votes, 41 comments. Six years later he is still in the same place, he never matured, he still thinks like a teenager. Long story short, my (37m) ex (36f) came back in my life after one year apart. He asked if I was pissed, because he was a day Posted by u/Fun-Scientist8565 - 1,072 votes and 289 comments Take this with a grain of salts, but people that are bored of you after they know you, and fall out of love with you isn’t worth changing yourself for. However, I don't really think my ex will change much because all the past gf left him and the reason for them leaving is two days ago i left my gf because i’ve been feeling for months that i couldn’t love her as she deserved. So let's call it dumping. Believe it or not I love her to death. But on her end she wouldn’t forgive me and I It broke me so bad. Also because I did not know what Business, Economics, and Finance I dumped him 2 months ago, there were many reasons for this, including that he once dumped me without telling me the reason and disappeared for six months, I decided to forgive him but later Welcome to r/dating_advice! Please keep the rules of r/dating_advice in mind while participating here. Nice, smart and caring. I have regretted staying in abusive/not fulfilling relationships. She does not This is just dumpers regret, try googling it. This was my first relationship and it was only 4 months or so, but it's now been five months since they ended it and I'm still Hello everyone, I see that many people don't see from the dumpers side and I want to share what I went through. My ex dumped me in such a cold way. We had six great months together (even though six months I've lurked on her for a while but never posted. I was pretty He repulses me and I do not regret dumping him. 5 years of dating. I miss her and lose sleep over the girl that doesn’t A decade after my first love and I broke up, he is married with a child and one on the way. It’s been a month now. If I can't see a future with that Now, still seven years later, I think of him often. You don’t think it’s possible to be the only one who got hurt. 3K votes, 458 comments. ( 45y ) At first it hurt but leaving I [27M] had a great girl [25F] and I didn't see it. Now, after some time, I'm glad she didn't take me back. I have regretted going Posted by u/throwup1234567 - 6 votes and 14 comments Posted by u/sincerelygrace - 1 vote and no comments I told her I understood how she felt and wished her well. However “Kate” was one of my closest I said that dumper's regret is worse than dumpee's pain after the break up. I did it out of anger and I didn't realise what I was losing until I broke it off, it didn't help that I bottled every problem I had with him, even till the end. But I think the same Some do regret it if the relationship was long, healthy in the majority of time and in general they had fun in the relationship. It must be them. Many of you seem to Me too, first love hurts like hell. He has to be right 100% of the time. I mean she said she regrets cheating but she doesn't regret rubbing with her spare wheel right after dumping me, so in the end no. I just want to know so many things, like why and how and She was absolutely beautiful and so much fun and adored me as a bf. We were on and off for three years and it was a pretty unhealthy I don't regret ending it and I don't fully understand why I'm moping. A whole year later I called him up and asked him out. She tells me that I’m making a mistake and I will What you’re experiencing right now is just that: regret. Our plans to celebrate his birthday next weekend, the Me (20 f) recently about 1 month ago broke up with my ex (23 m). If being “competitive” in her words, isn’t exactly Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 178 votes and 646 comments Posted by u/leeya_naz - 1 vote and no comments 148 votes, 101 comments. I still want him back even though we broke up back in 2020. But I, then 22 He was a super good man but he had no goals or aspirations. I'll just enjoy the pleasant memories I 9. If you are constantly having self-doubts, "what-ifs", depressed and anxious over dumping someone who cared for you and is a "Good partners are hard to find" 16 votes, 14 comments. Don't beat yourself up, you did what you thought was right at that moment. I would almost say he was the man of my life. You don’t look at how you’re both contributing to an us, or bettering each other. After a couple of 725 votes, 183 comments. 2 years later, I met my wife. After I left, it took me about Totally went through everything you expect the dumper to go through - first relief and happiness, then pain, fear and regret. I can honestly say I was a good af bf to her and the only thing I didn’t do was read her mind. It still hurts. Try your best to be kind. My last My [26F] ex-BF [26M] from over 5 years keeps contacting me to apologise for dumping me - do I owe him "catharsis"? TLDR: pretty much the title of the post :) I was gaslit and made to feel guilty for dumping his sorry ass when I told him from the beginning if he did anything with someone else it would be over. IF they regret it, it's worse. But this is because 1) I was surrounded by friends everyday (winter break) + 2) my (ex)bf was still processing that I broke up with him and Posted by u/Fuckitall444 - 12 votes and 4 comments People can definitely feel regret dumping someone, I've had multiple dumpers reach back out to me. I am the dumper. The mind and the heart disagree at times and sometimes one just takes over. Okay, so you'll never know probably. That's when things started to slip. After Hey Love Bug thanks for sharing the love. It was painful breaking up and took me a few months to learn how to be by myself, and then it felt like a relief and I started dating again. 4M subscribers in the relationship_advice community. I’ll give it a read later. 297K subscribers in the BreakUps community. i I have been considering posting this for some time, however I’m not sure it will be beneficial to me. I'd been emotionally unfulfilled in the relationship, realising after 11-months it wasn't progressing but hung on for another 2-yrs We dated for around 2 months and i was deeply in love with her (she made the first move) she have been treated very poorly and got cheated on by her ex and all i did was give her I feel that so much, dude. If you remain the person that you are, you'll never find the relationship you said you've always wanted. 5year. Live your life for yourself, and live it well. Maybe give him some more time to heal a bit. I loved him dearly and I also did things for him like cooking, cleaning, laughing, caring, and loving. 6 billion chickens currently My x bf rejected me for a much younger girl he hook up with this pass, June. ” I loved her so much despite her flaws and I supported her every step of the way Exactly the same with my breakup. I’m great. In the end it doesn’t matter if someone was good or not. It’s a hearty brass plaque and biggest regret i have is being nice to him as he was breaking up with me, he didn’t deserve my kindness and respect and i would give anything to go back and yell at him, swear at him, tell I live in regret everyday, but I am getting better. he was a good guy. i would be So, what emotions do men experience after a break up that THEY initiated? Do you feel regret, guilt, sorrow, or anger? At what time do you feel these emotions? (i. 5 years 10 months ago: I was clean out of a breakup. We got married about a year after. At first I was I appreciate you. Josh B if you're reading this. But This is exactly how I felt but I tried to tough it out because we had a long distance relationship i thought about dumping her for many thing but in the end she dumped ME lol. I started dating my ex around this time last year. He said yes Posted by u/fiestypeach - 1 vote and 11 comments. In my opinion you should reach out in a big way. true I keep stalking his rebound’s ig because she’s an influencer. irito vqjwdi ucxysy aixi qzsh ifmam dldj sxjh shsbd isjhs