Reddit i just found out my husband is dating my boss. Going back, I came to that woman’s house.

Reddit i just found out my husband is dating my boss Regarding the paternity it is actually the opposite. Just some breaks to slow down. I was seriously thinking some dangerous thoughts when Michael dissuaded me from doing so. Even if I found out my wife was regularly cheating on me and there was a possibility my son wasn’t mine, I wouldn’t do a test because I wouldn’t want anything to change on that front. My former boss was 20 years married to his secretary from his other job. I kicked him out for about 2 weeks and has been sleeping on the couch since then. Husband and I have been together since. I have no intentions of harming or trapping my husband in the marriage lol. My husband My husband's cheating was something I had compartmentalized in my life and this man called me while I was in the school pickup line with my kids and it just felt so incredibly intrusive. So like the title says I (f23) found out my husband (m24) spent $200 on OF in one month. Tldr; he’s done a paternity test behind my back after suspicions and now he’s found everything out and I think my life is ruined. [35f][37m]My husband has found out he’s not my sons father . He started feeling worthless and depressed. When he came back and was finally discharged he suffered from severe ptsd/night terrors where he’d wake up screaming. There's more to fatherhood than being a sperm donor. Even after I found evidence of my husband's affair, I didn't find the out the actual truth about what happened until I spoke to his AP (who thought he was single and was decent enough to tell me everything). Please read our SUB RULES before commenting. At first I was very understanding, with the way he talked like it was just something he is ashamed of. We’ve been married for 3 years and I only just found out recently that before we got married my husband ran a background check on me and my family. I get a message from some girl I I found out my husband had an affair with a coworker. Amy and her boyfriend have been going through issues for months at this point. Not a big deal on the surface. I told my sister that it’s crazy how she works for this nonprofit and is also dating an abuser and how her boss would feel if she found out. My sister started crying saying that I’m a bitch and I told her it’s her fault for threatening me. I even proposed to her, although no one in my family I would be honest with her and tell her that you really enjoy her company, but that this is something that is new to you and that you want to understand her better. I would never be with someone that put me before their child in such a way. He was my high school sweetheart. I was called jealous & crazy by many. Ben was my boss and the man I had been secretly seeing for months. My gf haven't uploaded any pictures to her socials and neither did her sister. Just found out that my gf who initiated and wanted an exclusive and monogamous relationship with me created dating profiles on multiple dating apps. The boy looks just like a mini version of my husband, it is almost an undeniable resemblance. I gave my husband a fake due date and my pregnancy actually went over the real due date, but close enough to the fake due date. They want the guy who is a drug dealer, aspiring rapper, failed athletes, scammer, great bodies with the bad boy attitude. He talks down to me when I can't perform well, and it's okay and fair, I just feel really bad. I was kicked out of my mom’s by my stepdad after 2 years and I never really blamed them because I was just a burden. My office manager (who is my boss' boss, she runs the whole friggin' meghilla. He took screenshots of all the profiles and that she was active last night before she came home. On our 5th date I found out that she's 37 - I originally thought she was 33/34. I found out last week that my husband never loved me. I didn't believe him because it was her abusive ex from high school from almost 10 years ago. ) Reply reply ch0k3 "Sorry boss, I can't come into work today, I have a mild case of racism I just found out today my Dad has stomach cancer that has travelled to his leg. I'm very angry and upset but I'm not sure I have the right to be. I honestly though that my life was a dream come true. I feel for the Becoming polyam was not forced on me, and I wanted it as much as my husband. (32M) just found out my wife of two years (33F) was hooking up with her friend (40M) for six months while we were dating but before we had sex. My(32F) Husband (34M) got angry at me in the airport My brother texted me saying that he was sorry that he checked through my wife’s email it was just open but he wanted to know why she wasn’t sleeping with me. Welcome to r/relationship_advice. I started The three of us had been watching movies on the pull out bed and both the baby and my husband had fallen asleep. So rightfully I called him a hypocrite since he was the one that wanted to have the relationship open in the first place. Being here is a great start, but I’d also recommend going to My husband and I just celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary. Sorry if this is long, but this just happened this morning and I am just so devastated. I didn’t talk to anyone what happened until Christmas. I just found out that I've been dating my biological brother for 6 years (Originally Posted June 29th, 2022) And as a teen mom twice over who beat the odds and had her Master's by 23, it's possible. Starting early to mid 2021, my wife has started to talk about Rick a lot. Originally posted in r/relationship_advice. TL:DR: I had a fling/fwb relationship with Amanda for a couple of months. They Come to find out, my dad and his dad are cousins, making us second cousins, we share a greatgrandparent. My husband and I started dating. it kind of is. I assumed he didn’t because he kept in touch. Since then, he's been making my work life hell to get me to quit. I was confused why she needed me to sit down but the look on her face told me everything. Finally, his body gave out due to stress and Dan took 2 Don’t even get me started. Considering OP has Autism. She got the insurance and the money. But at the end of the day, you know what’s right for you. He has a full on breakdown when he saw you at the The husband suddenly updates his dormant social media profile, revealing he's dating another woman: the boss. We’ve been dating for about 2 years. Even an accusation would be hard for me to get past, let alone a confession. Anyway it was kinda flirty and the waitress thought we were dating. Then the crying stopped. I now thank my lucky stars he cheated else I would have never had the family I have now. He swore that they were innocent, and I had no reason to not believe him I've never known the wife to have found out but I found her, he said he had a gf. Just ask your boss to fire them if they treat you like shit. He has been receiving radiation treatment and quite recently started chemo. We’re all on a family trip together right now(his mom, dad, step brother, step sister, and a bunch of his other relatives) I just found out my husband was cheating on me through Reddit as well, since before we even got married. And something like this coming to light would signify that there is a lot I don't know about him. If OP is fine with everyone knowing she fucked her boss and can take all the gossip that’s going to follow her in the workplace then be my guest. I just meant that the OP was talking about a much bigger difference like being in your mid 20s and dating someone potentially in their mid 40s. Everyone thinks he’s sick a great guy and I really don’t want to be part of his reputation being ruined. After not working for two years, she landed a job in the government and I thought we were living the perfect life until she started hanging out with her boss (we will call him Rick). He has no idea I feel this way. English IS my first language but pobody’s Nerfect. My (f27) husband (m30) of 5 years, Steve, had a female best friend long before we I haven't had my parents pass, but I found out that my sister was actually my biological mother when I was in middle school. Anne - "Are you attracted to me?" Me - "You're my boss. I didn't think much and congratulated her. Then I realized that I did the same thing and have just been hiding it for years. The guy contacted him and he had nudes etc of me on his phone. Now that I’m older, it’s not something I have to worry about—partly because I’m not the hot young new chick wherever I go and partly because I don’t have to tolerate any of that behavior because I’m established enough that I can shut people A week later, my dad got engaged to a woman who had barely turned 20. Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment. If I found out the person I was planning to marry my cousin, well, if you're planning to marry that person, generally he or she is your closest confidante - I'd be running to my SO going "dude, I Disclaimer: This will probably be a long one as this is not his first occurrence. Only people who cared were my best friend and my husband. It’s been a little over a month since I found out. I never thought this would happen and was always the one to say if the partner cheated it's due to something lacking in the relationship. While I was out talking with my best friend (after my wife had come home) the profile ended up getting deleted. We also have one child together. I've held onto this and need to get it out. If they’re lucky they only have one baby daddy. He was a student at university and I was working full time as a medical tech. My daughter has a friend that's been in care most of her life, she comes from a shitty family, but it doesn't mean she's a shitty person, I let my daughter know that she's welcome here anytime, sometimes she comes all weekend, she's coming away with us too, because in my eyes I'm a mother first and it's the mother in me that can't see another child go without just because I can. Log In / Sign Up; I just wanna tack onto this - I recently found myself on a dating site (OKCupid). I have never met this guy in my life I (29f) have a best friend of 18 years (30f) who I just found out is definitely cheating on her boyfriend (33M). My initial reticence stemmed from an awareness that he’d get hotter, younger dates than me and that I’d get older guys, because that’s just how the world works and that is indeed what has happened. About 2 weeks ago, I found out my boyfriend of 3 years is a Sissy. Husband and I got more and more serious and I quickly completely moved on and fell in love with him, forgot about my ex. He actually had a wife/ partner and kids. But not as pissed as if I found out that he had lied about where he was from or Just after I divorced, my ex husband started dating my aunt. He tried to hug me and I held my arms out all stiff, like a kid . We go to dinner and my husband is acting normal. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I might be the AH for flipping out at him when I could bare blame too for not doing my best to attend his family functions just to avoid conflict. I requested my husband to send it to me but he would insist that he’d like to talk to bank or he would handle the situation and would try to convince me that his bank is better than mine but I had already locked down on this deal and I wasn’t going to budge Hobag and my ex, let’s call him “Dog,” spent lots of late nights working out the kinks in contracts. 1 update - Long Original Post - November 9, 2023 . I knew how much student loan debt he had, and he He admitted the only thing he cared about was the “gangbang” and he told me he couldn’t get the visual out of his head. A few months later we were talking about when we first started dating and I was trying to find a funny picture from my Tinder profile, so I went on to check my account. ive been at my current employer for about 3 years. It's so painful to read his posts about me, before we got married and after. He took my husband's abuse almost as gospel because my husband was his friend and was "just looking out for him" (something my husband said to him). She's also still very 46 votes, 13 comments. One of my friends had heard this and let me know. I got pregnant by the neighbour I was having an affair with. still young, foolish to poke fun at you but even the married men here know not to share pics or details about their wives. Let me start by saying this is now the second time I’m finding out he cheated on me. My husband battled cancer last year and the chemo nearly killed him. You have to put yourself out there, but don't compromise on who you are to try to find someone. My dad never really cared. It was the cost If I were you, I'd tell her boss's wife. My (25F) boyfriend (31M) 14m found out I had previously slept with a black guy. I guess I wasn’t super clear in my communication. Reply reply KinCorDe • When I found out about my husbands AP, I took my kids and left our home and went to stay with my parents. He just said hold that thought lets go get ice cream Come to find out yesterday, she took a pregnancy test. He was very hard working, ambitious, goal-oriented person these are some of qualities that was Last night my best friend who is a single male found a dating profile for my wife on meetville. As a young woman, many of my colleagues were inappropriate. and more. She thinks I'm the reason her life was difficult and ruined. He sent me photos of my wife and Vivian emails talking about sex they had with each other a few days ago. I went to class two days after giving birth every time. We went out again just the two of us and he asked about my relationship status (I said single) and in return I asked his. Found out my friends husband was raping their 13yr old niece and when he got caught 2 days ago he shot himself in the head. Get app Get the Reddit app Log In Log in to Reddit. But over the past couple of weeks, I come to find out that I may be in over my head. If you have an issue with this post (flair, formatting, quality), reply to this comment. I went. He was an ass anyway and I needed to see my worth. She thought I was a couple of years older than I am (nearly 31 M). Long story short, I recently found out that my husband was not only married when we started dating, but his divorce wasn’t actually finalized until our son was almost 6 months old. My husband Sam and I met after college at a book club. off. Eventually someone found out and ratted them out. I told him about my previous exes and he was fine with that. You don’t necessarily want them knowing about these type of things and having ground rules is a must. Rule-breaking may result in a ban without notice. I found it in a desk drawer in our shared desk, a drawer he knows I use all the time, so it’s not like he was trying to hide it. The one who appeared more devastated They looked so cute together when I saw them. I wasn’t in the mood for sex and told him to stop and that I didn’t want to, plus our baby was sleeping next to us. We all were, did everything Going back, I came to that woman’s house. Here's my I found out after I got married that he saw 3 different woman at the beginning of our relationship in the first 3 years of us dating. Amy and I are very close so we usually know what’s going on in each other’s lives, however our friendship is long distance. She said that my husband is asking her to buy shoes something and it will be send to him. That’s when I asked I believe my husband might have a spy camera in our bedroom/bathroom. Today my sister asked me why he posted a photo of my best friend A with a loving caption. ” Her (ex)husband called me to say he’d hired a detective who followed them and saw them all lovey-dovey, and that they only had one hotel room. I’m in love with him. I love my husband very much and we have two wonderful children together and he promises me that it was a one time mistake he made when he was young but I still can't get over it. I was right. But I put everything behind my education. Financially, we were completely transparent (or so I thought). When we started dating in high school he cheated on me with his ex. I also agree with you that a lot of young guys in their early 20s seem to like women in their mid to late 20s. I started shaking my head and saying "No no no no" over and over again, I couldn't even hear what he was saying. I knew the baby wasn't my husband's because my husband and I hadn't had sex when the baby was You and your husband should have regular relationship check-ins where you discuss how things are going, how you are both feeling about each other and your relationship, what your concerns and worries are, etc. She was the most beautiful girl (still is) I have ever met Eventually my boss told me that my gf had confided in her 6 months ago that she cheated on me and my boss was feeling guilty because she respects me. However, when I brought it up to her, she immediately burst I’ve told my husband I feel nothing and everything at the same time — there are just no words. So I believe my husband might have a spy camera in our bedroom and bathroom. Found out my husband was in love with his friend. Do something you like to do and you will meet people. I took my kids to class with me when my Pos husband tried to sabotage me by just. Not because I care about his sexuality, but because its deeply important to me that my partner and I understand eachother. I'm so thankful for that, otherwise I'd still be in the dark, living a lie. Like the title says I (26M) just found out about my wife's (27f) affair that she's been having for the last 6 months. Fast. This is eating me alive and I desperately need advice. I was getting messages from several people that this was happening and how creepy it was. Met my husband, had two children. She gave me a lame excuse. But older. We really don't have a lot in common, but we just get each other. Apparently she engaged in many threesomes, sex with strangers, and had a couple large groups of friends, mostly men, and was having casual sex with most of them. and you need to find out how you can reestablish emotional and physical intimacy with each other I deleted both Tinder and Bumble. He was in his mid 30's when they met. Throwaway account because I don't want people following my main to know about these, at least not yet. 😂 Content Warning: Incest Mood Spoilers: Complicated, But OOP is happy I am not the OOP, that would be u/LetsSinWith who posted this on r/offmychest. - before I found out. It's kind of dirty to do that to someone on the spectrum that struggles with social cues. Which again makes me feel a little sick because I thought our baby was gonna be his first. I can’t imagine everyone finding out. I "found out" from her that she let someone finger her during that time. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Reply reply ApplesxandxCinnamon • I'm going to hell for laughing at this. Any sort of namecalling, insults,etc will result in the comment being removed and the user being banned. So when I confronted her about her relationship with Rick, I thought she would default to taking my side and do whatever was necessary to quell my fears. So he had to of seriously brainwashed her. I told my brother to try to sign in her email to his phone through Microsoft 365. So the guy I'm dating and I haven't known eachother And, I know how you feel. I texted my sister and snuck out to her place in the middle of the night I wish my boss was half as decent when he found out. I have a 7mo daughter and can’t imagine ever putting her through this. He’s cute. For quick backstory, I (F21) have been dating my boyfriend (M21) for over 4 years. I didn't even have a password, I had to setup a new password to login in and delete the profile. He’s MY son and I’d be damned if I would even be willing to allow To clarify I know he is not mine and I am dating as well. Now he wants to break up. At the end of the day its between you and your husband. My husband and the woman are both White while her partner is African American. I am not sure if I I’m 42 and work in a male dominated field where I am often the only woman. Trigger Warning: stalking, r*pe fetish. Finally, his body gave out due to stress and Dan took 2 months off. I have been married to my husband for a year and known each other for 3 years. He then told me about a 3some he had in college which I think is totally made up and he just wanted to get a rise out of me but who knows. He was kind and silly and he made me feel loved. My mom was 13 when she started dating my father, 15 when they got married and 17 when she started having kids. I have been kind of nonchalant the past couple of days and that is freaking my husband out. I just think it’s too messy. It says volumes about their character. She's a nice lady but the circumstances are horrible. Yes, I am hoping that the original poster is a troll, as there are a number of rather dubious things about his story. 😂 Reply reply One of my brothers good friends in college had a bunch of pictures saved of my brother's girlfriend & other girlfriends of their other friends. so I made her my best friend and now he has no one . He was charming, confident, and everything I had dreamed of. Be honest and open with each other, don't hide how you're really feeling. Expand user menu Open settings menu. But while us girls are still in our mid 20s it’s still a different ball game bc the guys aren’t thaaat much younger, otherwise they would I went to my parents and stayed there til Christmas. I think I am just coming to terms with the loss of the friendship and the realization that she was probably never really my friend. But our relationship had remained hidden, tucked away from the prying eyes of our Deciding how to proceed after you find out that the guy you've been seeing is married is a very delicate matter, and depends on your objectives with this man. "My husband and I have been together for 12 years, married for The boss probably felt so gross and creeped out when she found out the truth from OOP. We’ll call her Amy. Advice is to keep yourself safe and calm, do self care (walks, showers, eat sleep and breathe) and follow advice if your lawyer. We had problems before but I never thought he would do it. She says she has no issue with our age difference and I initially said it shouldn't be a problem - we are very compatible (similar jobs, interests, good chemistry, etc. I brought my partner to a company cookout and introduced him to my boss. TLDR : Husband has happy ending massages and trickle truthed me. I’m just a dude on the web offering my two cents, if you I recently found out that my husband cheated on me with his ex just days before our wedding. She deserves to know. My mother is carrying on as if this isn’t a big deal and it’s infuriating. I still had some hang ups about ex at that time. Husbandname, the man you have been dating, is my husband. :( people are baffled as to how I’m single and I just bite my tongue and stay quiet. This was way before I met him. Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole. We shared finances and had access to most of each other‘s accounts. This information blew my mind, I wasn't sure how I was going to react, what are the fucking odds? My dad and his dad aren't close at all, they don't even remember ever meeting eachother. I’ve known my best friend (F21) for about a Skip to main content. Update - November 14, 2023 (5 days after Original Post) . We fell in love and married a year later right out of college. I found out my husband had an affair with a coworker. One of them found out some how & they all cut contact with him (props to those 19 year old boys. " and walked off. At that time he and I had a decent relationship. This is really sketchy. We have a child together. It seriously sickens me. This happened a while back and Names are changed for privacy purposes. I wish my boss was half as decent when he found out. She ignored me. I have been working here for about 6 years, my husband for about 7 years. But he has never expressed any insecurity about my previous exes. We later started dating for around a year but just recently found out that she is married by accident after stumbling upon her husband's fb page. The wife realizes the husband started dating the boss a mere two weeks I talked to my boss yesterday (Monday) after lunch. Told me to sit on the couch. Our daughter is 7 years old now and my husband still has no idea that he’s not my daughter’s biological father. He started at a new company and finally realized how Hello! I am just in need of some advice. I cried everyday, then every other day, then once a week, then maybe once a month. The way I look at it is you have no idea what is going on in someone else's relationship and saying that just because you would want to know if it was you is a very selfish stance to take. Fun Fact To Cover Spoilers: As of 2023, the most popular emoji is the laughing with tears going down it's face. So I think I was well on my way. Since then, he's My mom is dating my boss. I will quickly recap my husband and I have been together since we were about 20 yrs old (both 39 now). Anyway I decided to switch majors and took a shorter education. No, I didn’t ask him out over texts because he was a terrible texted who wouldn’t respond for days so in my mind at the time, it would have been weird/awkward. Long story short, he sexually violated me and left many emotional I will never get financially involved again and I don’t try to date. I asked him for a separation 6 weeks ago due to his obsession with you. 7 days after leaving my mom, his wife of 19 years. OpulentWords Won lottery but my family has ruined the good vibes Three weeks ago I found out that I’m pregnant. He had very little authority to correct the kids of her and overall wasn't a life I envy. You're not seeing anyone are you?" Me - "I When I found J however my husband was suddenly attracted to me. a week. Her husband figured it out pretty quickly, and just realized that the families really liked them as a couple. He wants to keep the baby. Hi there, I posted something about a month ago asking for advice because I felt like my husband was definitely lying to me and possibly cheating on me. Reply reply valuesandnorms • I want to echo the other response. Every time we have sex I see his penis and it grosses me out. i feel really grossed out that she is seeing my boss it just feels weird and unethical i think he is in his mid 40s? not sure honestly it makes me like him even less This thread is archived New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot We are still together just got over the effort of dating other people so we are closed right now but willing to talk about it again in the future if one or both wants to open it back up again. After my mom insulted me, my aunt physically assaulted her. He went from a clear CT after surgery to remove the tumor, to 8 months later, finding it had actually spread into the Apparently my husband found out about Cindy a few days ago and didn’t like that I was “seeing someone else” when he was doing that to me. He’s wanting to You handled this like a boss. I got the emails a few weeks after asking if I’d like to deactivate my accounts, which I promptly did. Of course, weird situations do happen in life, but it just seems rather. Spent almost 750 days there. Some background - she and her husband split several months before us and my ex husband and her ex husband were super close. Some of you would say that my boyfriend needed to grow up and deal with his own insecurities. We'd like to take this time to remind users that: We do not allow any type of am I the asshole? or situations/content involving minors. I stumbled a crossed his clothing (he has more He moved in with her with like a week. I If I found out my wife cheated on me after she died I would find the guy she was cheating with and tell him that I'm reaching out because I just learned about their relationship and that I hold no ill will but that I thought he should know that my wife had aids. I didn’t know if he knew. So I (22M) have recently found out my girlfriend (MTF22) is trans. ) Sadly, the guys girlfriend who was friends with all the other girls, stayed with him & lost a good I am deeply in love with my husband and I thought he loved me too. It seems from the messages my My (F42) husband (M45) and i have been married for 20 years, and have a son who is 17. Long story short, I recently found out that my husband was not only married when we started dating, but his divorce wasn’t actually finalized until our son was almost 6 months I (27F) can't live without this man and I can't believe I've ruined the beautiful life we had. Immediately, his body language changed and he just said "Oh. I work nights on the weekend and usually head to bed around 5:30am, and my husband usually wakes up when I go to bed. CHECK FLAIR to determine if you want to read an update. I can’t find it, but I believe after I confronted him he may have removed it or I just haven’t found the location. You've already got some awesome feedback, but feel free to PM if you want to talk to someone who has gone through something similar to what you're going through. He Just my two cents. Not sure what to do about this but here I am seeking for advice/help on this. The thought of this has been disturbing me and I feel sick to my stomach. It felt like my heart had been ripped out of my chest. I am lucky my parents didnt tell them I was with them. When I asked him about it he said it’s his old phone he just kept I found the perfect house and my bank requested me for Tax returns of last 3 years. He even apologized to my husband. Spread the joy this holiday season. OP was legitimately tricked and fed a false/speed-run of dating. What I really wanted to tell her was that she is getting too close to a him and I If I suddenly found out my husband was bi/gay, I would need to understand what is going on, where his head is at, and how he views the future of the marriage. Original Post - November 9, 2023 . My mom is in her 40sF and i am 26F. I I kept hearing them calling me trustfund Barbie and stupid and so on. For some context first, I (29) and my husband (34) work for a small RMG firm here, we were both recommended through a relative of mine. I was I realize that people on reddit are against circumcision but it just doesn't change my mind. I just left, couldn’t muster any words Dan is a sweet, sensitive guy. r/relationship_advice A chip A close button. Just this married man was the one he had the problem with and constantly felt the need to compete with once he found out. Having hard time to trust him again. I convinced him to give his ex most of what she wanted. Sure, things could work out and you could end up happily married down the road, but if things turn sour, your job will be on the line. I told her to leave me and my family alone. He’s unmarried and no kids. Said he didn’t know what to do. One of them had to get another job. Dan is a sweet, sensitive guy. She's 22. You did this just like you should have! No only did she lie about the reason she wanted a divorce, She tried to take you home form you! Sorry but this is not a person you should want to stay married to. ) My cousin got me out quickly when the chaos ensued During our dating period, I use to tell tell my wife that cheating was the one thing I fear the most. My friend used to be the manager of her now husband. Communication is so key, especially if children are involved. They also didnt ask me what happened. If anything it's just good ol' racism and insecurity. She didn Found out my husband is secret millionaire and still charges me $500 rent every month - 3 November 2022 Throwaway account I(26f) met my now husband(25m) 4 years ago online. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. It didn’t take Found out my (M29) gf (F31) of 6 years has been dating someone for months My gf told me she was going to the beach for the weekend with her sister. My husband and I are in our 40s and have been married for 11 years. He dropped to the ground in front of me and started apologizing and I just lost it. Personally, without sending any judgement your way, I would never date someone who was fine with this custody arrangement. Your kids come first, second and third. We have a daughter together who does not know about this yet but is sure to find out eventually. He said they got into an argument and she blurted out that Kim isn’t his daughter and that Kim regularly spends time with her real dad (my husband). I'd never signed up for it, I only discovered it when I checked my junk email and found tonnes of emails in there from the site. My husband and I randomly ran into my ex while we were walking around downtown with our Yesterday I received a call from my best friend’s (Amy) husband (Paul) claiming my husband was the father of her four-year-old daughter (Kim). I talked about my husband at work all the time. We used to want to have more kids but my body wasn't able to get pregnant, i suffered from 2 miscarriages, and we visited a lot of Drs and specialists but at some point, i just decided i didn't want to have another kid. So, I'm dating my boss, it's been one month. I (25F) just found out my husband (28M) has 10k+ in credit card debt that I knew nothing about. He didn’t want the embarrassment of people knowing but he doesn’t want to raise a child that is not his biologically. I never thought I would be so obsessed with my own words and end up picking myself apart, trying to determine My husband has found out he’s not my sons father what should I do? Advice Received He’s done a paternity test behind my back after suspicions and now he’s found everything out and I think my life is ruined. If, for example, my husband took out a large line of credit and spent it on something we hadn't discussed buying, I'd be pissed (as I'm the one that manages our money accounts). It was over there where I cried my eyes out. Im not sure how to handle this . I asked her why. It was literally like they'd pulled With the exception of my husband, it took me until I was in my late 20's to my best friend. We’ve been together for 7 years but married for almost 3. Just asking questions to Sam and Sadie about intentions, how they met, etc. I just found out my neighbour has been having an affair with another one of my neighbours and the kids figured it out Reddit, please, I don't know what to do! husband found out about my crazy past in college and for a few years The difference in the situations is that her cheating and sleeping with married men went on just a few weeks before we started dating, and she had some deeper issues that resurfaced and caused her to engage in this behavior I (25F) just found out my husband (28M) has 10k+ in credit card debt that I knew nothing about. They were matching and everything. Mainly because I suspected they had something going on and I was trying to get a ride out of her. One July they had to go to NY for a week to “interview prospective franchisees. The issue is they want to go for the stereotypical image. I recently found out that my husband cheated on me while we were dating in high school. He told me to shut up and didn’t actually put it Recently, I (22/f) found out that one of my best friends (21/f) had been dating my ex (22/m) behind my back for a good while. 2 weeks ago my best friend (A) told us in the group chat that she has a bf but she wants to tell who it is in person. If I were you, I'd tell her boss's wife. My husband woke up and was horny and started dry humping me. It just sounded so unbelievable and it felt like he was trying to get back at me. Guess what! He was 100% lying to me for weeks. I knew how much student loan debt he had, and he no i met him in at work we’ve been together for 2 years and i’ve caught him making fake profiles on snapchat to talk to other girls, but we got back together after we established boundaries and me trusting him and shit, he deleted the apps and uninstalled it so i saw that it was installed two days ago i couldn’t see any messages because he deleted the app probably before he got I (29f) have a best friend of 18 years (30f) who I just found out is definitely cheating on her boyfriend (33M). I asked my husband and Rebecca to go to my parents. I never confronted her because my husband had me convinced I was crazy and I was worried I was. My husband skidded around the corner and when I saw him I just started crying harder. He’s the perfect man to me. Found out by saved messages, list of girls he was with (3 after mine), and phone records. It’s never really “appropriate” in my opinion (atty licensed in 2 states) for a manager to date their employee. I was obviously very hurt and upset at first. Four women on Reddit share their experiences dating bosses, To start off, I used to date this girl, we'll call her Sunny, at the end of high school (which was over 10 years ago) and lasted for several years. (Something she is proud of she keeps telling me. We have been together for several years and married over a year now. She was a single mother and much lower financial level. I also knew I’d find this challenging because of my life stage. I didn’t think much about it when I found it because I went through it (had the same password as his main phone) and didn’t find anything sus. How ironic that my sister is dating an abusive person. I hated my father the most because he'd left me for 14 years, comes back and fucks my wife. I have been a victim of an attack like this and my attacker is currently in prison, and I can say if I ever had this happen and I found out my partner/ husband was 1000% definitely a rapist I would be gone. She wanted health insurance coverage until he was out of the military, $36,000, and child support for children that were NOT his from a previous marriage for her that she DID NOT have custody of. The guy told my husband that he didn’t know at first that I was married but as soon as he found out he contacted my now ex. She didn't seem to feel that bad and even started to argue with me. They dated in secret for years. I feel your pain, I wish you the best. It was hard for me at the time to cut him off. He didn’t want the embarrassment of people knowing but he doesn’t want to raise a child that is not his My husband and I started dating while he was in the divorce process. I cheated on my husband with another man but he never found out and I never confessed to cheating. I was the product of a long going affair I have come to find out. I havent told my gf that I know yet and I'm trying to figure out how to handle this. My husband is an Iraq war veteran. I held onto that, knowing that that was the truth, but it always was in the back of my mind if that was it. I started dating. I found out my husband cheated on me before we got married. I was fed up with the lack of physical intimacy between me and my SO around that time. He confronted me today. I thought he needed time to heal, so we took things slow, but eventually, we started dating exclusively, got engaged, and My husband and I just celebrated our 4th wedding anniversary. We have been having sex regularly. She told me the truth only after they had already made things official between them. Not at first, but you will. I confronted him and he admitted to it. In 2020 I found out he regularly has massages when I'm not home or when hes traveling for work. ) tells this person to go home for the day since you don't have system access, and specifically told that it wouldn't be held against her. For concluded-only updates, use the CONCLUDED flair or subscribe to r/BestofBoRU for concluded, time-gated content. What do I do? submitted 5 months ago by ThrowRA-TakeawayCrab. When I was about 14-15 I got into a relationship with a guy who claimed to be 28. I found out because we were on vacation with his family and they were doing things I had no interest in participating in a few times so I stayed behind. My Boss is an engrossing and skillfully executed in almost all respects, the one exception: the passionless kissing scenes After watching K and C dramas for over two years I am always dismayed by the odd images of adults barely sucking on a lip to fulfill the inevitable 'kiss' scenesOtherwise, the actors, director and scriptwriters deserve high marks for an enjoyable She said she had been dropping hints for ages, she wasn't seeing anyone, and had a crush on me. My husband never suspected a thing. I’m 22 and he’s in his late 30 early 40. A year ago, my husband came home and accused me of cheating and he had evidence. I thought if I confronted her and was wrong I’d lose my job Today, I found out my husband has been cheating on me for over a year with his work colleague while we were trying to have a baby. I don't know if he was cheating while with my mom and to be honest I don't want to find out, I'm trying to move on and accept what it is. (ps, white-knighting on reddit won't get you laid, just meaningless internet points. Beforehand, I would do some research. I told him about 2 weeks ago. I (29F) have been with my husband (30M) for 14 years, married for 3 years. My husband and Rebecca were calling me non-stop asking where I am. My husband works with a married couple, he has been working with the husband for a long time and she started working there a few years back. From what I could gather from my conversations with him all her family used him from time to time to get out of financial troubles. Hello! I am just in need of some advice. Good luck to you, OP. ). Reply reply gotdeezmemberberries • My wife grew up in a very religious family and she has plenty of stories of being set up with or encouraged to go on dates with guys “from the I guess under the pressure she confessed to hating me. I went back home after I cooled down a bit to find out what So I (M32) just found out that my wife (F32) used to be very promiscuous in her younger days. I was still awake around 6 and heard a car door close out the front. We met online. . I’m deeply in love with him now but not obsessed as I I've been working at my job for about a year now; in a really small team and sitting right next to my boss. Reply reply More TL;DR gf signed up for dating apps without my knowledge, I found out about it and I can’t decide on what to do. As far as I’m aware they are still together. I will be referring to the woman I was with I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 5 years, and I (35F) just found out my bf (36M) slept with his step sister many times years ago. For context, I am a woman in my early 20s and he is probably in his late 30s. I told her that I didn’t go there to fight I just want to know what is the connection and why my husband is sending money to her. On phone sorry if hard to read. I didn't know what to do so I just lied petrified in my bed and waited till the people left and mark went to bed. We were quite serious about one another and even moved in together. The affair was less then 6 months and I know they had sex. What guy would just finger a girl if they're at college? Fast forward: She moved to my state, we got engaged. I loved it because I love my husband and it was just wonderful feeling desired by him again even though deep down I knew he wasn’t attracted to me as much as he was panicking I’m starting to sleep with others. I read all the texts and I think he was I found out a few days ago that my husband had a ONS 10 months ago. I When this happened at my job the man was fired for it but the younger girl quit shortly after because EVERYONE found out. I got upset and unfriended her on social media. I told her I was uncomfortable with the whole thing because she was drunk and she was my boss. We have a great time at work together, coworkers frequently tell me that they can hear us laughing from the other side of the office. Usually they upload pretty frequent but this wasn't an issue until today during work. The best thing to do is end the Saira* loves nothing more than her family, but her husband's boss saw an opportunity to take advantage of their tragic situation. By recently I mean a few months ago, and by found out I mean she kinda told me as well. I found out because he contacted me about it because she broke it off. I’ve been married for 13 years. He let me borrow his laptop because I left And as a teen mom twice over who beat the odds and had her Master's by 23, it's possible. not coming home when he was supposed to so I could get to class. He's weirdly proud of being uncircumcised and talks about how great it is and how lucky I am to be with a "natural" guy and I just kind of laugh nervously. All ages are at the time it happened. Basically how I was so happy I found this job, how I looked up to her and was proud to be working for someone like Update - I (28F) found out my husband (29M) has been telling his coworkers that I'm his sister. When I logged in it said I had no Found out person I'm dating is older than I thought . Sounds like you've got a wonderful I found out that she was drinking, partying, etc. After dinner, I give her a lot of credit, Sadie tried to bring it up with my husband. Years of therapy and getting a service dog helped him out tremendously and the night terrors and ptsd blackouts became less and less. I told her everything. I found out my fiancé has a “work wife”. Please make sure you read our rules here. Imagine dating who you think is a decent person and having this bomb dropped on you In general, dating your boss is a terrible idea. She said she didn’t know why she did it, maybe she was just too lonely and my husband was just “available”. During the work time, our boss would occasionally bring his then teenage daughter to work (she should have been around 15-ish when we Just my personal opinion on the DNA testing part. I gave my name and she looked so surprised. He snooped and found out her dad was my husband. " Anne - "You didn't answer my question. Bit of backstory, he was in a tumultuous 5-year relationship with his ex, full of cheating, manipulation, and gaslighting. ziovjmp lihhd yfzjk litjr vla wau uaw uapbu ywrqhiyz eumkf